Pathway Balancing Blog

This blog explores the current trends emerging and developing at Pathway Balancing. It is a place to keep in touch with the energy and inspiration of what’s happening here. The space provides information and support for followers of the Pathway Balancing soul journey. It is a source of free and up to date expert knowledge.

Don’t Waste Your Energy Giving to Selfish People

It can be a harsh reality to face but sometimes the people you love can be too selfish to waste your time with them. If you have a compassionate heart you can fall into the trap of giving to selfish people in the mistaken belief that you will receive what you need in return. Is there an area in your life where you are giving your best but receiving little or nothing in return? Stop. Look more carefully and you will see the empty pit that your energy is being poured into. It saddens me deeply to see people who are empty, closed off, self-absorbed, self-sabotaging and destructive because they have been deeply wounded in their heart and soul. It is even more heartbreaking to witness someone close to them desperately trying to fill, encourage, engage with or build up such an empty, draining person. Step back. You can’t help them. You can’t make a difference in their life. You can’t do anything more and it’s time to say enough is enough. It’s time to discover the truth of who you are. Continue reading →

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Increasing Your Capacity For Success

Lots of people set goals, write down plans for achieving them and set off with the right actions to get the ball rolling. It seems that only a few people continue this process to the point where they achieve the success and fulfilment they were envisioning. I see many people who are talented, gifted and experienced and yet they seem stuck or slow to make the most of life’s opportunities. My quest to understand and resolve this stuckness in myself and others led to the development of the systems and methods I now use and teach to others. I wanted to get to the root causes of problems and once there, apply an effective method to resolve those issues in a way that was long lasting. My training in kinesiology gave me a way of hearing what the body was saying through the art of muscle testing. The natural healing methods enabled energy to flow again and the body could get on with being healthy, even while medical or pharmaceutical treatments continued to give support. However, one day I realised this was not enough for me. Continue reading →

Posted 9 days ago in Training | Leave a comment

Chronic Fatigue or Exhaustion – Regaining Health

When clients present with any form of repeated exhaustion or recurring, exaggerated fatigue, they have often endured prolonged exposure to situations that were knowingly draining, distressing or impoverished but which they were unable to leave or change for the better. In many cases the client is still in that situation when starting therapy and looking for relief from their chronic exhaustion. These conditions feel like a bottomless need for rest, interrupted by monumental efforts to carry out essential activities. Any bursts of clear energy are quickly used up & followed by burn out again. Clients often see their condition as almost hopeless and medically untreatable, while looking for that one thing that will suddenly and permanently restore them. The path to regaining health is found somewhere in between these two myths. I believe there are two essential keys to unlocking this condition and returning to freedom and vitality on an ongoing basis, both of which are part of the Pathway Balancing philosophy of healing and personal development.

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Posted 16 days ago in Balancing mind and emotions | Leave a comment

Balancing Energy to Focus on This Year’s Goals

At the start of this new calendar year, new solar year & crescent moon phase, many of us are setting out with fresh determination to make positive changes by the end of 2012. To reach those goals we’ll need to direct enough energy and attention into our plans if they are to become our reality. My teaching of Touch for Health 1 this weekend included a very clear demonstration of how we embody a different energy pattern in our muscles when we focus our mind on a set goal. The students then learnt how to set appropriate goals with their future clients, plus effective techniques for clearing and strengthening the persons energy for achieving those goals. And this is only the beginning of the skills and knowledge used by Pathway Balancing kinesiologists!

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Posted 24 days ago in Training | Leave a comment

Healing the Soul, Healing the Body

This weekend I was beginning the Level 2 ‘Community’ training for this year’s Kinesiology Diploma course & our work & research focused on the two healing manuals, with new material being added to ‘Healing the Soul’. Saturday’s energy & awareness theme was ‘stability’ and revealed how emotional overwhelm can cause the soul to partly disembody, resulting in life going off-course, sometimes for many years or even decades. If the soul energy is not fully embodied, we can get stuck in disempowering situations, ending up burnt-out with chronic fatigue or as exhausted victims in abusive personal relationships. Navigation to a healthier place in the community means looking up and focusing on divine guidance, through books, spiritual awareness and caring relationships. As we find greater stability we can move to the next part of the process of healing within ‘The Community’.

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Posted 31 days ago in Training | Leave a comment

A Day of Soul Retrieval & Cutting Soul Ties

Last Saturday’s Soul Journey Day had a different dynamic from previous Days, as we looked out on the start of 2012. Our little group soon settled into a cosy atmosphere, with bright winter sunshine streaming through the south-facing window and everyone snuggled into their tub chairs with soft blankets wrapped around legs. There was a sense of grounding, depth, rootedness and lively curiosity about the way ahead. Our initial group discussion revealed how much each of us had overcome on our personal soul journey to date. There was recognition of the accomplishments of each person and an awareness that much more was yet to come. There was a collective desire to ‘get this stuff out there’ because we recognised the profound effects that the power of Pathway Balancing had manifested in our own lives and we wanted more people to benefit from this work.

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Posted 37 days ago in Soul journeys | 2 Comments

Divine Heart Guidance as the New Year Begins

The basis and centre of our lives will determine the way ahead for us this year and create the outcome of our efforts in 2012. The safest place to be is under the protective wings of the Divine heart. The Pathway Balancing system has been created through Divine guidance, to give answers and healing to those of us that seek God’s guidance for the Way ahead. The therapy and training rooms here are the miraculous provision of a loving God and many of you will know the amazing ways this has happened during the past few years. In this sanctuary we have access to grace and guidance that heals our past, gives us comfort, joy and confidence for today, and directs our paths towards our uniquely conceived purpose on earth. This weekend (Saturday 14th January) will be the first Soul Journey Day of 2012 and this is a time of preparation, in the natural and supernatural, for those of us taking part. What are the messages coming from the Divine heart as we draw closer together for the workshop?

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Posted 44 days ago in Soul journeys | Leave a comment

How Has This Year Defined you?

My philosophy in working with clients, & in my own personal development, is that healing and growth come from the top down & the inside out. When we lack energy or awareness, life begins to compress us, causing us to contract or draw inwards, creating hardness, rigidity & pain. We may experience a lack of the things we need or desire. We can start to feel defined, or even limited, by our circumstances, events or other people. This is a place of disempowerment and often characterised by blame or complaining. Whenever we notice this happening it is a sign to redirect attention to our available resources and reconnect with power again. We need to call on the higher power of Divine love & provision and be refilled and redefined. As this year draws to a close, we can see how the experiences of the past year have defined us and shaped our life today.

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Posted 66 days ago in Balancing mind and emotions | Leave a comment

SJP4 – Power of the Heart – Dec 2011

This weekend was the first ever teaching of Soul Journey Practitioner 4 ‘Power of the Heart’. It was a profound experience to complete a course that didn’t exist when we started out together. The first student made her initial enquiry in August 2007 and started training in March 2008 on the Touch for Health 1 course here. I first taught the original Pathway Balancing Kinesiology material in June 2005, so a course that was birthed on a summer solstice has come to completion around the time of the winter solstice. This Saturday was also a full moon, so many natural cycles co-incided with the fulfilment of a long-held vision. The Pathway Balancing Soul Journey structure is now complete and from here on will be consolidated and filled from the top down. Most of the weekend involved raising our awareness at the highest Transcendent Level – ‘Completion of the Journey of the Soul’. With each of us gaining very specific insights as to the way ahead for the new year – everyone had a list of things to do as their next steps for realising their own personal vision, which was so empowering. While Saturday felt like a completion of our journey, Sunday became a time for new beginnings with new material being added to the newest manual in the Pathway Balancing collection – ‘Healing the Soul’.

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Posted 73 days ago in Training | Leave a comment

How Does Your Money Reflect Your Soul?

In the Newsletter posted out to my current clients last week, I wrote about the value of money. I reflected on the times when money robs us of our joy and diminishes our true self, such as working for money at something you don’t enjoy and may even struggle with in some way. I’ve recently re-read ‘The Money or Your Life’ by John Clark, which I first read in 2000 when I was employed in the financial services industry. He writes about leaving behind the angst of working for money in a job or profession that leaves you exhausted, miserable or anxious. He recommends aiming for bliss by shifting your focus into the domain of  interests and activities that you really love and little by little moving into this domain as your place of work. Reading it now, having made that transition into the domain of helping people to develop their true, healthier self, I see how our finances reflect our soul and that the clue is in our body.

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